A few months ago, I was assigned to a project that looked straightforward on paper: integrate two systems that were supposed to “talk” to each other. I’ve seen enough of these initiatives to know that “supposed to” is doing a lot of work. The systems were built by different teams, followed different assumptions, and behaved differently under edge conditions.
As I dug into the analysis, it became clear this wasn’t going to be a plug-and-play situation. There were dozens of integration paths, inconsistent data mappings, and edge cases that no one had fully documented. It was shaping up to be one of those “figure it out as you go” projects.
What made the difference, though, was not just the technical work—it was the people. On the vendor side, I had a counterpart who was communicative, precise, and genuinely collaborative. Their clarity helped cut through the uncertainty. We didn’t waste time on assumptions or misinterpretations. When something broke, we talked. When something wasn’t clear, we clarified. That rhythm saved the project.
When it came time to write the post-mortem, I had a chance to reflect. Looking back, the project didn’t succeed because everything went smoothly—it succeeded because we handled the bumps well. And that was possible because of the open, consistent, and accurate communication.
As a business analyst, I’m often deep in documentation, workflows, and requirements. But this project reminded me that communication—real, human, intentional communication—is often the most critical tool in my toolbox.
Let’s talk about how to become a supercommunicator.
🔎 Why Communication Is the No. 1 Skill for Business Analysts
Business analysts are not just intermediaries between business and IT. They are connectors of worlds who need to understand context, emotions, interests, and technical details—and most importantly, communicate effectively.
Charles Duhigg, in his book Supercommunicators, shows that the best communicators aren’t those who talk the most—they're the ones who recognize the type of conversation happening and adapt accordingly.
For analysts, this skill is essential. Whether it’s gathering requirements, negotiating priorities, or facilitating workshops, knowing how to match the tone and intent of the conversation can make or break the outcome.
🧩 Three Types of Conversations Every Analyst Must Recognize
Let’s dive deeper into Duhigg’s insights. In Supercommunicators, he identifies three core types of conversations.
Understanding which type of conversation you’re in changes everything. If someone is expressing frustration, jumping into solution mode (a “what’s the plan?” mindset) might backfire. But if you realize it’s actually a “how do we feel?” conversation, you’ll know to listen, acknowledge, and empathize first.
For business analysts, this skill is transformational. When you know the type of conversation you’re in, you can ask better questions, resolve conflicts more effectively, and guide workshops or interviews with greater clarity and impact.
❓How to Ask the Right Questions: Curious and Constructive Inquiry
Most analysts—including myself—are trained to ask technical questions. But if you want to become a supercommunicator, you need to go beyond that. The form and purpose of a question matter just as much as the content. The real goal isn’t just to gather data—it’s to open dialogue, uncover true needs, and build trust.
Personally, I’ve found that my best work follows what I call the 3E model: Explore, Explain, Expand.
✅ 3E Model: Explore – Explain – Expand
First, I explore the stakeholder’s perspective without assumptions.
Then I ask them to explain their thinking in their own words—why it matters, what they’re trying to solve.
Finally, I expand the conversation, testing ideas and surfacing unspoken needs or constraints. This approach helps move beyond checklists and into meaningful conversations that drive clarity and alignment.
🛠 Practical Examples: Reframing Your Questions
Good questions aren’t just about extracting answers—they’re about building understanding, surfacing hidden assumptions, and co-creating clarity.
Here are some side-by-side examples of weak questions versus supercommunicator questions that align with the 3E model:
📝 Final Thoughts
As business analysts, we often focus on precision, structure, and logic. But this story—and many like it—reminds us that even the most technical projects succeed or fail based on how well we understand and connect with people.
Becoming a supercommunicator isn’t about talking more—it’s about listening better, asking smarter questions, and recognizing the type of conversation you’re in. Tools like the 3E model (Explore – Explain – Expand) help you shift from transactional conversations to transformational ones.
If you want to level up as a business analyst, start with your next conversation. Be curious. Be intentional.
And most importantly, be human.